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Waiting on God When the Promise Seems Delayed: Steadfast Faith in 2 Peter 3:8–9

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Reader’s Note: This article is adapted from themes explored in my upcoming devotional, Spiritual Resilience: Growing in God’s Grace — A 14-Day Devotional Journey Through 2 Peter, scheduled for publication in November 2026. While this post reflects the biblical themes, recovery principles, and spiritual direction of the devotional, it has been intentionally developed as a separate public-facing reflection so as not to reproduce the unpublished manuscript in full. My hope is that these thoughts will encourage you to remain rooted in Jesus Christ when answers seem delayed, healing unfolds more slowly than expected, and faith requires us to keep walking before we can clearly see where the road is leading.

Some of you may remember what became known as the Marshmallow Experiment. A child was brought into a room, seated in front of a marshmallow, and given a choice. They could eat the marshmallow now, or they could wait—and if they waited long enough, they would receive another one.

Think about what that asks of a child. The marshmallow is right there. They can see it. They can smell it. They know exactly what they could have right now. But the second marshmallow exists only as a promise. Someone has told them that if they wait, something more is coming.

Now, years ago, this experiment became famous because early follow-up research appeared to connect the ability to delay gratification with better outcomes later in life. Later research showed us that the story is considerably more complicated than that. Family environment, socioeconomic circumstances, cognitive development, and other factors matter too. So the lesson is not that whether you ate a marshmallow at four years old determines the rest of your life.

But the experiment still gives us a fascinating picture of what it feels like to wait for something that has been promised when something immediate is sitting right in front of us.

And fellow travelers, that is where I want us to begin this morning.

Because sometimes faith feels remarkably similar.

God has spoken. God has promised. We know what Scripture says. We remember what He has already done. Yet what we can see right now does not seem to match what we were expecting.

Healing is taking longer than we wanted. Recovery feels slower than we imagined. The prayer has not been answered the way we hoped. The relationship has not changed. Grief remains. The temptation we thought should have disappeared still occasionally knocks on the door.

And somewhere in that waiting we begin asking a question remarkably similar to the question Peter records in 2 Peter 3:4:

“Where is the promise?”

Peter’s answer is not, Try harder to convince yourself that nothing hurts. His answer is not, Pretend the waiting is easy. Peter brings us back to the character of God:

“The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward.” — 2 Peter 3:9

What we interpret as delay may not be abandonment at all.

And this morning, I want to talk about what happens between the promise and the fulfillment—because sometimes that space we desperately want God to shorten is the very place where He is teaching us how to develop steadfast faith.

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When Freedom Becomes Bondage: Spiritual Resilience and the Warning of 2 Peter 2:17–22

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The Illusion of Freedom When What Promises Liberty Leads Back to Bondage

Anchor Scripture: 2 Peter 2:17–22

“While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage.” — 2 Peter 2:19

Reader’s Note: We are entering the final three days of our Spiritual Resilience journey through Second Peter, and Peter is now bringing several of the themes we have explored into one sobering conclusion. This article reflects one of those closing themes from the forthcoming Spiritual Resilience devotional project. It is not the complete devotional entry, but an adapted teaching intended to help us consider Peter’s warning in the context of recovery, discipleship, boundaries, relapse prevention, and genuine freedom in Jesus Christ.

Freedom Sounds Wonderful—Until the Thing Promising Freedom Becomes Your Master

Freedom is one of the easiest promises to believe because every one of us longs to breathe again somewhere. We want freedom from shame, freedom from painful memories, freedom from controlling relationships, freedom from anxiety, freedom from addiction, freedom from other people’s expectations, and sometimes simply freedom from having to feel what hurts. There is nothing inherently wrong with that desire. Yet Peter closes the second chapter of his second epistle with an unsettling warning: not everything promising liberty actually knows the way to freedom.

Some forms of bondage do not approach us wearing chains. They approach us offering relief. Addiction says, “You deserve to feel better.” Resentment says, “You never have to become vulnerable again.” Isolation says, “No one can disappoint you if you stop depending upon anyone.” Control says, “Everything will be all right if you can manage the outcome.” People-pleasing promises acceptance. Compulsive independence promises protection. The problem is not that these promises contain no appeal; the problem is that they frequently demand increasing authority over our life in exchange for temporary relief.

That is why Peter’s language deserves our attention. He describes false teachers as “wells without water” and warns that while they promise liberty, they remain servants of corruption themselves. A dry well is deceptive precisely because it looks like the place where thirsty people should find water. The expectation is real, the thirst is real, and the need is real, but the source cannot provide what it promises. In much the same way, counterfeit freedom frequently offers something we genuinely need—rest, connection, dignity, safety, relief, acceptance—but directs that need toward something incapable of sustaining us.

As we approach the conclusion of our Spiritual Resilience series, this becomes an important question of discipleship and recovery: What have I been calling freedom that is actually exercising power over me? Paul wrote, “All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient… I will not be brought under the power of any” (1 Corinthians 6:12). The question is not merely whether we are permitted to do something. Spiritual resilience requires us to ask whether that thing has begun possessing authority over our thoughts, choices, emotions, relationships, and obedience to Christ.

Anchor Verse — “Of Whom a Man Is Overcome”

Peter’s warning reaches its center in 2 Peter 2:19: “For of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage.” That verse provides an unexpectedly practical definition of bondage. Whatever continually overcomes us, commands us, controls our responses, overrides our convictions, or persuades us to compromise what we know is right has begun functioning as a master.

This connects directly with Peter’s larger message throughout the epistle. Second Peter began with a call to spiritual growth: faith joined with virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, and charity (2 Peter 1:5–7). Peter did not describe Christian maturity as passive belief. He described a life increasingly governed by Christlike character. Now, near the end of chapter two, he shows us the opposite trajectory. Instead of growing in temperance and truth, a person may surrender themselves again to appetites, deception, corruption, and patterns capable of overcoming them.

That contrast helps us understand spiritual resilience. Resilience is not merely surviving hardship. It is developing enough spiritual rootedness that pressure, appetite, fear, resentment, loneliness, pride, temptation, and disappointment do not continually become our masters. Peter is bringing us back to the question of authority. Who—or what—is shaping the direction of our life?

Before We Go Deeper: Freedom Is More Than Escape

Many of us understand freedom primarily as getting away from something. We stopped drinking. We ended the destructive relationship. We left the unhealthy environment. We stopped rescuing people. We established a boundary. We walked away from the compulsive behavior. Those moments may represent tremendous breakthroughs, and we should never minimize the grace and courage required to make them.

Yet escape is not the same thing as transformation. Paul tells believers to “put off” the old person, become renewed in the spirit of their mind, and “put on the new man” (Ephesians 4:22–24). Recovery therefore involves both removal and replacement. We are not merely learning what we must stop doing. We are learning an entirely different way of thinking, responding, relating, grieving, resting, trusting, worshiping, loving, and walking with God.

That is what makes Peter’s warning about becoming “again entangled” so significant. Something may have been escaped while the deeper appetite remains unaddressed. The substance may disappear while the hunger for escape continues. The destructive relationship may end while fear of abandonment remains. Rescuing may decrease outwardly while anxiety about other people’s choices continues dominating our thoughts. Spiritual resilience develops as the grace of Christ begins transforming not only what we leave behind, but who we are becoming as we move forward.

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When Appetite Becomes Authority | 2 Peter 2 & Recovery

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You Can Know What God Said—and Still Keep Negotiating

Reader’s Note: This article is adapted from an entry in my upcoming devotional, Spiritual Resilience: A 14-Day Journey through the Second Epistle of Peter. The full devotional develops Peter’s teaching within a broader journey of recovery, discipleship, spiritual formation, and Christ-centered resilience. This article offers a focused reflection on one of Peter’s most sobering warnings: what happens when appetite begins speaking with authority.

The Road of Balaam and the Recovery of Desire

One of the most dangerous moments in recovery does not necessarily happen when we openly rebel against what we know is right. More often, it begins quietly, somewhere beneath the surface, when we start negotiating with a boundary we already understand. We remember what happened before. We know the consequences. We recognize the pattern. We may even tell ourselves that we have no intention of going backward. Yet appetite begins whispering that perhaps the circumstances are different now, perhaps one exception will not matter, or perhaps we have finally become strong enough to handle what once held us captive.

That is what makes the biblical story of Balaam so uncomfortable and so relevant. Balaam was not someone who lacked spiritual knowledge. He heard God. He understood what God had said. He knew the boundary placed before him. Yet the promise of honor and reward kept something alive within him. Even after receiving a clear answer, he remained interested in the possibility that the answer might somehow change. His words could sound obedient while his desires continued negotiating beneath them.

For those of us walking a path of recovery, this tension is familiar. Addiction and unhealthy patterns rarely return announcing themselves as rebellion. Craving does not usually say, “I would like to destroy everything you have rebuilt.” Instead, it borrows the language of compassion, logic, urgency, fairness, or necessity. It tells us we deserve relief. It reminds us how lonely we are. It convinces us that we have suffered enough. It suggests that because we have been doing well, perhaps the old boundaries are no longer necessary.

The danger is not that we experience desire. The danger begins when desire becomes our interpreter, our counselor, and eventually our authority. This is where Peter’s warning about Balaam becomes more than an ancient story about corruption. It becomes a mirror through which we can examine the subtle negotiations taking place within our own hearts.

The question Peter places before us is therefore not simply whether we know what God has said. The deeper question is whether we are willing to surrender the desires that continue asking us to reconsider what He has already made clear.

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God Knows How to Rescue | 2 Peter 2:9 & Spiritual Resilience

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From Spiritual Resilience: A 14-Day Journey through Second Peter

Reader’s Note: This article is adapted from an entry in my upcoming devotional, Spiritual Resilience: A 14-Day Journey through the Second Epistle of Peter. The published devotional develops these themes more fully through Peter’s warnings, recovery reflection, Scripture, and practical spiritual application. This article offers a focused exploration of one central lesson: what happens when appetite begins speaking with authority.

Scripture consistently reveals a God who does not remain silent or distant from human suffering. From Eden to Patmos, He moves toward His people with redemption, restoration, correction, mercy, and healing. His rescue is neither random nor occasional; it is woven throughout the entire biblical story as God repeatedly meets people within danger, bondage, grief, failure, exile, temptation, and uncertainty.

This becomes one of the foundational messages beneath Peter’s warning in 2 Peter 2:4–10. Peter writes about corruption, false teachers, divine judgment, and the dangers confronting the early Christian community, yet within that warning he gives us one of the most reassuring statements in his second epistle. God sees corruption clearly, understands danger completely, and knows how to rescue those who turn toward Him—even when they cannot see the way out themselves.

Our anchor verse is 2 Peter 2:9: “The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished.” There is extraordinary hope in Peter’s declaration because he does not merely tell us that God wants to deliver us. He tells us that the Lord knows how.

There are seasons when we know something must change but cannot imagine what change will look like. We recognize that a relationship has become destructive, that an old behavior is beginning to regain influence, that resentment is consuming too much emotional energy, or that isolation is drawing us toward familiar forms of escape. We may recognize the danger while still feeling unable to identify the road toward freedom.

Peter speaks directly into those moments. Our inability to see the way forward does not mean that God has lost sight of the path.

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Truth Is a Great Treasure | Set the Sail for Recovery and Sobriety

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A.W. Tozer — The Set of the Sail, Chapter 19

What if the very thing you are afraid of losing is connected to the very truth that could save your life? That question reaches deeper than simply asking whether we are willing to admit when something is wrong. It asks whether we are willing to surrender whatever keeps us from seeing ourselves, our circumstances, and God clearly. Sometimes we cling tightly to familiar patterns because they feel safer than uncertainty. We hold onto relationships, habits, reputations, excuses, resentments, or carefully constructed versions of ourselves because letting them go feels like losing part of our identity. Yet recovery often teaches us that what feels like loss may actually become liberation. The truth may dismantle something we desperately wanted to preserve, but in doing so, it may also open the door to the life we have desperately needed.

Truth can feel expensive because truth often requires something from us. It may cost us our pride when we finally admit that we were wrong. It may cost us comfort when we recognize that familiar patterns are no longer healthy. It may cost us popularity when we refuse to continue living according to the expectations of others. In some situations, truth may even change relationships when honesty exposes dynamics that have been unhealthy, manipulative, enabling, or destructive. Yet A. W. Tozer reminds us that truth should never be treated as a burden from which we need to escape. Truth is a treasure to be received, guarded, cherished, and lived. What initially feels costly may eventually prove far more valuable than whatever we feared losing.

If you are walking the road of recovery, sobriety, healing, or spiritual restoration, this message matters deeply because lasting recovery cannot be built upon denial. Recovery does not begin by pretending everything is fine, minimizing what happened, blaming everyone else, or carefully managing appearances. It begins when we become willing to tell the truth about where we are, what has happened, what we have done, what has been done to us, and what needs to change. That kind of honesty can feel frightening because it removes the protective walls we have built around ourselves. Yet those walls often keep healing out just as effectively as they keep pain hidden. Recovery begins when truth becomes more important than protecting the illusion that we are already okay.

Truth, then, is far more than an idea we intellectually agree with or a principle we affirm when it is convenient. Truth has the power to reshape the soul because it confronts the stories we have told ourselves in order to survive. It challenges the lies of addiction, shame, resentment, fear, self-sufficiency, and hopelessness. It exposes the difference between who we have pretended to be and who God is inviting us to become. In recovery, truth is often one of the first things we fear because truth threatens denial, secrecy, and false security. Yet it is also the very thing that begins setting us free. When truth enters the places we have hidden, healing finally has somewhere to begin.

This is why the words of Jesus in John 8:32 become such a powerful anchor for anyone seeking genuine spiritual and emotional freedom: “You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” (John 8:32, NRSVUE). Jesus does not present truth merely as information to be collected. He connects truth directly with freedom. That freedom does not always arrive by removing every difficult circumstance from our lives. Sometimes it begins by freeing us from deception, denial, self-condemnation, unhealthy attachments, and the exhausting effort of maintaining appearances. Truth allows us to stop running from reality and begin walking honestly with God. The freedom Christ offers becomes increasingly visible as we learn to live without hiding from what is true.

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Before You Drift Back: Remember the Road, Examine the Heart, and Protect Your Recovery

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Look back without shame. Look within without condemnation. Move forward with greater spiritual resilience.

Adapted from the upcoming devotional Spiritual Resilience: A 14-Day Devotional Journey Through 2 Peter

“And thou shalt remember all the way which the Lord thy God led thee.”
—Deuteronomy 8:2

“Let us search and try our ways, and turn again to the Lord.”
—Lamentations 3:40

There is familiar advice that tells us we should never spend too much time looking into the rearview mirror. After all, we cannot safely move forward if our attention remains fixed upon everything behind us. Yet there are moments when a thoughtful glance backward becomes necessary. We need to remember where we have been, what we have survived, what we have learned, and what we never want to return to.

The danger is not found in looking back. The danger comes when we become so focused upon our past that we stop paying attention to the road ahead. Healthy remembrance does not invite us to relive our failures, return to our former bondage, or remain imprisoned beneath shame. It invites us to recognize how faithfully our Heavenly Father has carried us and then honestly examine whether we are still walking the path He has placed before us.

This is where the Ministry of Remembrance begins. We look in two important directions. First, we remember the road behind us. Second, we examine the heart within us. One gives us perspective concerning where we have been, while the other provides present-tense awareness concerning where we are today.

Together, remembrance and examination help protect our recovery, strengthen our discipleship, and deepen our spiritual resilience.

The Road Behind and the Heart Within

The Apostle Peter understood that faithful disciples sometimes need to be reminded of truths they already know. He did not assume that spiritual maturity made remembrance unnecessary. Instead, he recognized that repetition, reflection, and spiritual awareness help believers remain established in the truth.

The same principle applies to recovery. We may understand the dangers of addiction, destructive behavior, emotional isolation, and spiritual complacency. We may have years or even decades of sobriety behind us. Nevertheless, knowing something intellectually does not always mean that we are presently living in harmony with what we know.

Remembering the road behind us allows us to see the past honestly. We remember the confusion, damaged relationships, broken promises, secrecy, exhaustion, and spiritual emptiness that once characterized our lives. At the same time, we remember the grace of Jesus Christ, the people God placed along our path, the doors that opened, and the strength that appeared when we believed we had nothing remaining.

Examining the heart within brings those lessons into the present moment. It asks whether the spiritual disciplines, healthy boundaries, trustworthy relationships, and recovery practices that helped establish us remain active. It also asks whether confidence has gradually become complacency or whether old emotional and spiritual patterns are quietly returning.

Remembrance asks, “Where was I, and how did God meet me there?” Examination asks, “Where am I today, and what is presently happening within me?”

We need both questions.

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Add To Your Faith: Building Spiritual Resilience Through Grace and Faithful Action

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From the upcoming Spiritual Resilience: A 14-Day Journey through 2 Peter

Consider a builder who possesses the finest blueprints, the strongest materials, and every tool necessary to complete the work given to him. Despite having everything required, nothing will be built until those resources are intentionally used. Lumber stacked beside an unfinished foundation does not become a shelter. Tools left inside a locked toolbox will never strengthen a wall. A blueprint may be carefully studied and deeply admired, yet it cannot become a finished home until someone begins the building process.

The same principle applies to our own faith and our own recovery journey.

Faith is a gift from our Heavenly Father and the foundation of our spiritual lives. However, the Lord never intended for our faith to remain undeveloped, untested, or disconnected from the way we live. Faith is not merely something we profess, defend or privately possess. It is meant to become the foundation upon which God develops our spiritual character and integrity. Faithful obedience, emotional maturity, and enduring spiritual resilience becomes the fruit of our faith in Christ.

The Apostle Pater was writing to believers who had already received grace, received faith, and the promises of God. These were not blessings they had purchased through any form of religious performance or effort; nor, earned through any personal merit. However, Peter still called them to participate diligently in what God had already given them. Divine grace supplied the necessary foundation, the materials, the strength, and the opportunity for growth. Discipleship required them to begin building upon that foundation.

Anchor verse: “And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge” (2 Peter 1:5)

Spiritual resilience begins developing as faith is strengthened through the Christian virtues of a spiritually Christian disciplined life – one that is consistently crucified unto Christ. It is also strengthened through knowledge – learning line upon line precept upon precept, and here a little and there a little. It is also strengthened through temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, and charity. These qualities do not replace our faith or compete with God’s grace. They reveal what happens when faith becomes active in our own lives, grace becomes transformational, and the life of Christ begins producing visible fruit within us.

This principle is especially important for those of us walking a path of recovery and learning how to thrive in sobriety. See, fellow travelers, Sobriety does not stabilize our lives because we desire a different future. Desire may awaken us to the need for change, yet lasting transformation requires willingness that moves toward accountability. Faith needs to begin shaping our mindset, relationships, boundaries, habits, decisions, reactions, and responses.

Prayer, meetings, inventories, healthy boundaries, supportive relationships, accountability, service, and changed behavior do not earn the grace of God. They are ways we begin to live faithfully within the grace we have already received. Grace empowered becomes grace expressed, and grace expressed, becomes grace endured.

Peter, therefore, invites us to stop treating faith as a passive possession and invites us to begin the process of allowing God to build something enduring within us.

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Everything You Need Is Already Given: Spiritual Resilience in 2 Peter 1:1–4

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There is a practical truth contained within the simple statement, “Everything you need.” Peter does not say that God has given us everything we want, everything we imagine, or everything we believe will make life easier. He declares that everything required for us to pursue life and godliness through Jesus Christ has already been made available.

And yet, this is the dilemma many of us face in recovery. The truth that God has already provided everything we need can sound almost too simple to understand, trust, or receive. A life shaped by powerlessness, dysfunction, and the inability to manage our own affairs often trains us to look outward for validation. We learn to perform, prove ourselves, impress others, and secure whatever we believe might protect us from feeling inadequate, unwanted, or empty.

In essence, we become accustomed to believing that we must have more because, at some point, we felt we had nothing. That sense of lack may quietly shape our desires, relationships, ambitions, and even our spirituality. Instead of receiving what God has already provided through Christ, we continue striving for approval, control, attention, comfort, or security.

For me, it took time to understand the importance of slowing down, waiting upon the Lord, placing my faith and trust in Him, and recognizing that everything I truly needed had already been provided. I did not need to beg, plead, bargain, or convince God to help me. And trust me, I became very skilled at negotiating with Him.

You know the kind of negotiation:

“Lord, if You help me out just this one time, I promise I will read my scriptures. I promise I will pray more. I promise I will do better.”

I often treated God as a means of rescuing me from the consequences of my own dysfunction. Once the immediate crisis passed, I pushed Him onto the back burner and returned to living according to my own desires.

Anchor Verse: “According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue.” —2 Peter 1:3

What comes to mind is the promise Christ gave in John 10:9–11: “I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture. The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. I am the good shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep.”

The abundant life promised through Christ becomes the lived reality of Peter’s declaration. Everything we need to receive this abundant life has been provided through Him. We accept this provision as we step out in faith and onto the path of covenant relationship, where we continue growing in Christ.

This is how we move from merely surviving along our recovery journey toward thriving in sobriety. The fruit is an abundant life rooted not in what we possess, control, or accomplish, but in who Jesus Christ is.

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T.H.I.N.K. Like a Disciple: How God Sanctifies the Mind in Recovery

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What do you believe is the reason for Christians in recovery to stumble, relapse, and fall short? Is it because they are weak? Maybe they lack genuine faith? Perhaps they simply are not doing enough to better themselves? No, because the reality is this: most Christians in recovery do not fall due to weakness, lack of faith, or not trying harder. Often times, one falters, stumbles, and relapses because of their thinking is unguarded, untrained, and unanchored. The battle for sobriety is always won or lost in the mind long before it shows up in behavior. And in a world that seems to drown in noise, distraction, and spiritual confusion, God is calling His people to become sanctified thinkers – men and women whose minds burn with truth, courage, and mental sobriety and clarity.

A. W. Tozer understood something we desperately need today: recovery requires more than mere abstinence and clean time. It requires a renewed mind, a courageous intellect, and a heart that thinks with God. Sanctified thinking is not academic, elitist, or detached. It is gritty, honest, and forged in the wilderness of real life. It is the kind of thinking that saves a man’s soul from collapse and sets his sail toward the wind of the Spirit.

Anchor verse – John 17:15-16, NRSVUE: “I am not asking you to take them out of the world, but that you protect them from the evil one. They do not belong to the world, just as I do not belong to the world.“

Jesus Christ, the Savior and Redeemer of humanity, petitioned the Father in prayer for each one of us. He interceded on our behalf for protection – not our escape. He prayed for our minds to be guarded, our hearts to be strengthened, and our thinking to be sanctified while each of us remain in the very world that once broke us. Recovery is not about retreating from life folks. It is about learning to think differently, to think with God in the middle of our struggles. And Tozer’s words in Chapter 18 of his book, The Set of the Sail speaks directly to each one of us as believers. Individual believers who desire to thrive, not merely survive.

This devotional continues the journey from Chapter 17—The Crucified Mind: Recovery Requires Sanctified Thinking—and moves deeper into Tozer’s call for courageous, honest, Spirit‑formed thought. If Chapter 17 showed us the need for a crucified mind, Chapter 18 shows us the qualities required to become a sanctified thinker in a world that desperately needs them.

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The Plan Never Changed – He Sees Us and Our Struggles

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There was a moment in my youth where I learned a lesson I didn’t understand until much later. It happened during a Boy Scout outing one summer. We were out on the bay near my hometown, and it was the first time I ever learned how to paddle a canoe.

Okay, so what — you got to go out on the water, learn to paddle, in a canoe. What’s the big deal?

Here’s the lesson.

On the way back to shore, the tide was going out. We were paddling against it. Not upstream on a river — against the tide of the bay. And the harder we paddled, the slower we moved. Every inch forward took every ounce of strength we had.

Life feels like that sometimes. Recovery feels like that often. You’re straining at the oars, wondering if you’re even moving, wondering when you’ll reach the destination, wondering when the struggle will ease.

I didn’t think about that moment again until I came across a reel of a guy with a sideways cap, tattoos, and piercings teaching on Mark 6 — the same chapter where Jesus feeds the 5,000, right after He receives word of John the Baptist’s death, and right after He commissions the Twelve to preach the Gospel.

Anchor Verse — Mark 6:47–48 (NRSVUE): “When evening came, the boat was out on the sea, and he was alone on the land. When he saw that they were straining at the oars against an adverse wind, he came toward them early in the morning, walking on the sea. He intended to pass them by.”

And that’s where everything shifted. Pastor Kelly K said something that stopped me cold: “If Jesus saw them, He sees you too.” The disciples were in serious trouble — rowing hard, struggling against the wind and waves. And Jesus saw them long before He ever stepped onto the water. Just like He sees you. Then came the line that most of us have never paid attention to: “He intended to go past them.” Why would Jesus walk toward them… but not stop?

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